THE "BIG" STORY?
Today a few of my favorite activists ridiculed media coverage of
the transgender "coming out" by the former Bruce, now
Caitlyn, Jenner, basically saying there are bigger environmental,
economic justice, etc, stories for the corporate media to report
rather than this "Kardashian" infotainment.
And I suppose if you aren't transgender perhaps the issue is not
important to you... or perhaps the murders and suicide rates are so
high among trans people that you don't hear about it enough to care.
But the story of a famous person going public about who she is
attracts the kind of media attention that is essential to spreading a
message of acceptance of transgender- the "T" in LGBTQ-
community members in a world that has been and still is for the most
part, hostile to them.
At a time when the same acceptance and civil rights they seek are
finally on the verge of being won by lesbian, gay and bisexual
persons, it's a story that is just as important as "same sex
marriage" or any LGB story was one, five or ten years ago...
whether it was "Ellen" or your neighbor down the block.
This is a crucial time for transgender persons, especially
children. We don't need another generation growing up with an almost
50% suicide rate. And seeing themselves positively portrayed on TV is
the beginning of the end of discrimination and the kind of religious
atrocities that directly cause those deaths.
It could take years before laws fully catch up and it will take a
sea change in attitudes to get there. But until then reporting the
story with sensitivity and acceptance- as most if not all media are
doing now- will remain as important as anything. If it takes a
"Kardashian" to move the issue to a new level it will be
following the same path that LGB and before that racial integration
stories took when famous people "came out" to help reverse
bigotry and make acceptance the norm.
Please have compassion and understanding for the children of parents who are trans as well.
ReplyDeleteThis is an issue that is hard to explain because in some way, we are losing our father, and are left to figure out the role of this new persona in our life.
When my parent transitioned from male to female 30 years ago, I grieved because I was a Daddy's Girl and felt that I lost my Daddy.
But when everything was done, I realized I grew up only knowing half of a person who lived in abject fear of being discovered and was constantly angry for that reason.
Now I know a whole, complete and happy person!! I love my Dainna so much!!
Here we are on #MontelWilliams:
http://youtu.be/QSH_y0xgTAA